We left Fort Pierce early Monday with a plan to head to either Cape Fear, NC or Winyah Bay/Georgetown, SC. We had originally planned to go to Brunswick, GA but our weather routing software suggested the trip to Brunswick would take a day and a half and our arrival would be at night. We looked at destinations that were farther up the coast and decided on Cape Fear if we could or Winyah Bay if we were traveling more slowly than expected. We entered the Gulf Stream off of Cape Canaveral and really started to move. We motor-sailed because the winds were too light for sailing only. The seas in the Gulf Stream were 2-3 ft (not bad) but with a confused (waves every which way) wind chop on top. By Monday evening the wind unexpectedly picked up so we turned the engine off. Then we double-reefed the main. At times we were moving at 10 knots. The wind moved around to the north and we started bashing into the waves. The wind and waves on the nose slowed us down. We furled the sails and started the